"I can talk to anybody. I'm a total talker ", says Mary Beth Evans. And
she means it. She calls
in to our New York offices on a scorching hot day in Southern California
and is so lively and
cheerful and giving with her time (an hour on the phone) that you can't help
but think she's just the
coolest, undivalike actress around. She's not hung up on her soap stardom,
despite the fact that
she is one-half of one of Days' biggest supercouples ever. In fact, she says
her three kids think she
works "in a bank. They don't talk about it. We never have," she shrugs. "They're
happy for me. I'm
a creative person. If I wasn't acting, I'd be gardening or painting all the
rooms in the house. You can
only go to so many yoga classes and then come home and wait for them to come
home. I like to
have my own groove, my own thing."
Evans found that groove at an early age. "I remember when I was like 5 or
6 years old, my mother
had her horoscope done and all the kids gathered around asking, "What did
they say about me?"
she recalls. My mother said whatever she said about the other kids, but said
I would become an
actress. When I was in school, whatever I could do to skip writing a paper
and put on a play
instead, I did."
Evans got serious about her career as a teenager. "When I was 14, I got a
job at Taco Bell-before
they looked at IDs or anything-so that I could make enough money to pay my
sister to drive me to
acting classes and pay for the acting classes," she says. "My mom, being
a single mom, didn't have
money and my sister was never going to drive me somewhere for free." When
she was 18, Evans
joined South Coast Repertory in Orange County, CA. After her first play-in
which she met her future
husband, who was in attendance-Evans worked steadily, often cast as the
"wholesome, all-American
girl from an uptown, conservative family, which is so not the truth," she
laughs. "I come from a
divorced family. My mom raised four kids as a single mom. We lived in an
apartment. It was so not
that."
Evans eventually secured a gig on the prime-time soap Rituals, then headed
to daytime. "I went in a
Days audition and I remember sitting on my girlfriend's kitchen counter going,
'Oh my god. They
want a three year contract. I can't even imagine. That's a death sentence.'
" she marvels. "And then
of course I stayed for six years, GH for that many years, and ATWT for that
many years. It's been
a long journey. At some point along the 20 years I said, 'This is what
I want to do'. I like doing
soaps. It's fun. You can be home with your kids for dinner. "
Being on Days in the 80s, appearing on countless Digest covers and having
children named after her
alter ego didn't affect Evans a bit. "It's funny, because during those years
I was juggling working full
time and having little kids, " she explains. "You work at the studio for
12, 14 hours a day, so it was
like being in this giant garage hanging out with your friends and doing this
stuff and then going home.
I never watched it. My husband and I never talked about it, ever, and it
never had any impact on me.
It was really more when I had left and Stephen and I went on our journey
to different shows and then
when we were on GH together and it was never the same that I realized what
we had."
So much so that Evans and Nichols yearned for their old Salem days. "The
Patch and Kayla
characters were so great, and Stephen and I worked so well together and loved
working together
that then we really missed it and said, 'Gosh we'd really like to do it again',"
she recalls. "Both of us
felt there was more story to tell. Even when I was doing different shows,
people always said to me,
'I love you as Kayla. When are you going back?"
But the return trip didn't happen so quickly: Evans stopped in ATWT's Oakdale
along the way to
play Sierra, commuting cross-country to do the role. "It was such a great
experience for me," she
enthuses. "My mother in law lives in New York. I had gone to New York every
year for
Thanksgiving, but I never got the chance to get to know the city. I just
love it, so to be able to do
ATWT and get an apartment in the Village? It was such a juggle, but so much
fun. Chris Goutman
(executive producer) is the nicest guy. He always made me feel great and
valued me and I really
always appreciated that about him. And the cast is great. I hope to be able
to go back and visit them
this Thanksgiving. "
Evans admits she thought a ticket back to Salem was never going to be issued.
"There were a few
times we had conversations with the executives over there and it didn't work
out for one reason or
another. The stars weren't aligned or whatever," she explains. "This time
it was really a one phone
call to three weeks later it happening kind of deal. " But getting back into
the groove took some time.
"When I was first back, I had a phone call to Caroline saying 'Hi it's Kayla'
or whatever it was. I
started laughing because it was so surreal. Now I feel happy and comfortable
back there."
Those same words could easily describe her home life. Evans and husband Michael
Schwartz met
when she was 19, dated for 5 years, then got married. Nearly 26 years later,
their union is still going
strong. "We're very different in many ways," she observes. "But our values
and thoughts about
raising kids are very similar. We go out with each other on the weekends,
on the weeknights we stay
home with each other. It's not like we're running off to do something with
somebody else, but we
give each other the freedom to do what we want. Who knows what the secret
to longetivity is?
Marriages have such a winding road and if you can just hang in there and
communicate and keep
everything open, that's really the key."
Also key is the communication with her children. "My husband and I are extremely
demonstrative,"
she says. "It's very touchy feely/kissy-huggy at our house. I have always
talked to my kids about
everything and I've been doing that since they were little. They're not afraid
to talk to me about
anything. There's no judgment. I try to be guidance. It's turned out well."
Also important is making the most of her job. "Stephen and I both talked
about this before we came
back," she notes. "We just want to be honest, we want to have real moments.
And if we leave each
day thinking we got a few in, then we feel good." |